72 Dirty, Sexy Texts + Secrets to Make a Girl Wet & Horny in a Subtle Way

You want to know some sexy text messages that will turn her on and make her wet. Well, look no further. We have everything you need to know right here! 

Let’s be honest, we’re more glued to our phones than ever. So, if there is a woman who is catching your eye, the easiest way to talk to her is probably through texting. Of course, you want to talk to her and get to know her, but you also want to turn her on. So, you need some sexy text messages that will make her wet.

Foreplay *including your words* is a huge part of a woman’s ability to orgasm, making this technique all the more tantalizing to learn. However, turning your girl on is easy-peasy in person. You have the option of using touch and your sexy voice.

But if you’re looking to get her hot and bothered over text, it may not be so easy! Over text, you lack tone, sensuality, and of course, the ability to caress her leg, touch her hair, and kiss her lips. 

But that doesn’t mean it can’t be done! In fact, there are so many fun and sexy ways to turn a girl on over text that we can’t help but share. [Read: 20 fun, exciting ways to not be dry when texting a girl and keep her hooked]

The benefits of sending a girl sexy texts

The fact is that people are less inhibited when it comes to typing and texting. 

If your girlfriend is shy, she’ll probably be a lot more comfortable exchanging some dirty words via text rather than sexily whispering it in your ear *as much as you wish she would*.

Exchanging some sexy words together can benefit your relationship in a couple of ways. [Read: Emoji sexting: 30 fun emojis to make any text seem extra flirty & naughty!]

First, it can make your girlfriend feel more comfortable with you sexually and open up more in person. Second, you will be able to share fantasies together, and you’ll get to learn what does and does not work when it comes to turning your girl on. 

Oh, and did we mention that it’s tons of sexy fun? Yeah, that too. [Read: How to get a shy girl to feel relaxed and open up in bed]

Why do sexy texts work?

You’re probably wondering why dirty talk is so effective with women. Well, dirty talk activates specific regions of the brain which stimulates the body. In addition, dirty talk works to heighten arousal and play into people’s fantasies.

Dirty talk is more than just a provocative sentence, it works as a part of foreplay and creates sexual intimacy, even if you’ve never had sex with this person before. [Read: How to talk dirty: 36 sexy tips & 55 examples to turn anyone on with words]

This is why it’s important to choose the sexy text you’re going to send to your girl carefully. If you don’t touch upon the right fantasy or use a line that she’s into, it could go south quickly.

Plus, timing is an important factor. If she just failed her college entry exam, sending her a dirty message won’t do the trick. 

So, pay attention to these factors before you send her a sexy text, or else the only thing she’ll be is dry. Very dry.

When can you start sending sexy texts to a girl?

Before sending her these texts, you should have developed some form of a relationship. You just can’t send her these texts out of nowhere. You’ll come across as forward and pushy. [Read: 45 sexy ways to start sexting & 50 sext examples to get someone horny]

But if you’re now at the time where you should be taking it to the next level, you’re going to need these texts. Pick one that you think she’ll like, one that you think she’ll work with, and respond positively to. 

How to initiate sexy texts and send the right kind of texts that will make her wet

There will be this moment in a conversation where you have the potential to take it to the next level. You’re attracted to her, she’s attracted to you, and, well, you want to have fun. 

We’ve all been there. Of course, conversations like “how’s your day,” are nice, but it isn’t exactly what you want.

How do you get to that point where you can text a girl and make her wet? Better question, how do you send naughty text messages that will make her wet without scaring her away?

It’s time to get dirty by learning how to send the perfect sexy texts!

1. Do you want to dirty talk with sexy texts?

Here’s the thing, if you’re not into dirty talk, it’s going to show. People can sense the enthusiasm, or lack of it, of another person even through text. [Read: 58 texting secrets to text a girl you like and make her want and desire you]

If you’re simply not in the mood to send her naughty texts or you’re even contemplating if you should do it, well, just take a break for now.

If you want it to be a good experience for both of you, then do it when you’re actually into it.

2. Don’t just send a dirty text out of nowhere

Do you know if this girl is into you? Well if you just start sending sexy texts as a way to make her like you, it’s like trying to bake bread with the oven turned off. It’s not going to happen. [Read: How to flirt with a friend: 18 ways to tease without being weird]

Start off with a normal conversation, and slowly work your way into a more sexual tone. Basically, you need to test the waters. She may not be into it.

3. No pics

This is more important than anything! Don’t send any photos. First off, you’re literally sending someone a photo of your naked body. Once they have that, who knows what they’ll do with it.

But in addition, you’re taking away all the mystery. You want them to imagine you naked, to play out your dirty texts in their head. [Read: Dick selfies: Why men love sending dick pics to women]

It’s about getting them to that point where they want to live out that dirty conversation in real life.

Here’s our only advice to you on the subject: if you’re going to send one, you’d better be damn sure she wants it.

4. She needs to give you the okay

When you send a sexy text to a girl, don’t continue to bombard her with messages. Just be patient. She needs to send you some signal that she wants to continue the conversation in this tone.

Now, if she’s changing the subject or only replying with one-word answers, it’s easy to say that she’s not into it. So, in that case, stop.

But if she’s into it and showing some hints of arousal and curiosity, then you can continue sending sexy texts to her!

5. Don’t rush

Here’s the thing; the odds are, you probably don’t know this girl very well. Maybe you met her at a bar last week, you work with her, or maybe you met her at a birthday party, but she’s not your close friend. 

In any case, you shouldn’t rush through getting to know her, even on a sexual level. [Read: Texting a girl for the first time – 55 tips and first text examples to make her smile]

The thing that’s great about sexy texts is that you get the chance to see the type of things the person is into. Maybe you don’t sexually match and that’s okay. You just saved yourself an awkward sexual experience. 

6. Be as descriptive as you can, like you’re telling a story

We’ve all heard that when it comes to sex, men are visual creatures, but so are women! When you sexy talk to your girlfriend via text, she wants to be told a story, and that includes your fantasy. 

Give details and really draw her into your fantasy. The more turned on she gets by yours, the more likely she’ll be to share her own dirty thoughts with you.

7. Be playful and tactful

You want to have fun when sending a girl sexy texts. At the same time, you also want to have an end goal. 

Of course, it’s terribly exciting to send sexy text messages that make her wet and leave her aroused. But what do you want to come from this? [Read: Sex in a relationship: How to make the first time less awkward]

The end goal could be to have sex with this girl in real life, or maybe you’re trying to spice up your vocabulary. But you need to be smart when sending sexy texts to someone. 

Suggesting to meet up too soon will make you look thirsty or creepy and possibly ruin the thrill that you developed.

8. Keep it light

In the beginning, you want to keep the conversation light with a hint of sexuality. Then, slowly, work your way up. The important thing is that the girl you’re texting is receptive and engaging. With each text, amp up the sexuality and innuendos. [Read: 40 naughty, playful texts to keep things hot and horny]

Now, you don’t have to be vulgar when talking dirty. You can keep it clean and wait to see how she responds. That way, you see where each of your boundaries are.

9. You could offend her

Ah yes, you probably didn’t think about this, but it’s always a possibility. You may not say the right thing at the right time. 

But if you want to continue, just be cool about it and move forward. Apologize for what you said and keep going.

When it comes to sending sexy text messages that’ll make her wet, or just about initiating any kind of naughty conversation, it’s always a tricky line. Especially if you haven’t slept with her yet, and you don’t know what makes her tick.

10. Talk about your actions

Now, you may be wondering what you’re going to talk about with her while sending sexy texts. Well, you’re going to talk about foreplay and sex. 

Focus on talking about the things you’re going to do to her or what you want her to do to you. With her replies, you’re basically creating a story; you’re writing out how you would have sex. [Read: 23 signs to know if someone is thinking of you sexually & desires you]

11. Get creative with your words

This isn’t the time for you to stay in the box. This is all over text messages, so you can really release your deepest fantasies without worrying. 

That’s the beauty of sending a girl sexy texts; you’re not doing it in person, so everything is in your imagination, feel free to let go. Unless the girl is feeling uncomfortable, that is. [Read: 87 best dirty truth or dare questions for a wild & sexy night]

12. You can move it from text to real life

At some point, even after a couple of days or weeks of sending sexy texts back and forth, you’re going to want to take it to the next level. 

This is when you can suggest coming over or vice versa to put the texts into reality. Now, you have to time this right or else you run the chance of freaking the girl out and rejecting the offer.

56 sexy text messages that will make her wet

It’s time to get dirty and get her wild for you with these sexy text messages:

1. All I want to do is see your beautiful body naked right now.

2. You have the most perfect body I’ve ever seen.

3. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, I’m so addicted to you.

4. I can’t get enough of your pussy.

5. All my dick wants right now is to be inside of your warm pussy.

6. Why doesn’t your body have its own Instagram account?

7. You’ve been driving me crazy, so I’m going to have to spank you for that. [Read: Spanking women: 23 sexy spanking secrets to spank a girl and arouse her]

8. I can’t wait to taste your sweet pussy.

9. You just get sexier by the day.

10. I’ve had enough of sending sexy texts! I need to taste that body of yours.

11. Everywhere we go, you’re the sexiest woman in the room.

12. I would do anything to fuck you right now.

13. Your tits are the best thing I’ve ever put in my mouth, well, second best after your pussy.

14. I can’t wait to kiss every inch of your body.

15. You’re the only woman that can make my dick so hard.

16. You want to torture me, don’t you? [Read: 34 sexual questions to ask a girl over text & make her horny & wet]

17. Your mouth on my dick is the best feeling in the world.

18. You don’t even want to know how many times I’ve stripped you in my mind.

19. Is there something you’ve always wanted to try in bed that you’ve never done before?

20. What do you want me to do to you tonight? I’ll do anything you want.

21. I can’t handle a minute not touching you. My hands want to feel every inch of you.

22. You have an amazing ass, and I can’t wait to get a taste of it.

23. My goal in life is to make sure you cum every time you’re naked in front of me.

24. So, here’s the plan. Tonight, I’m going to lay you on the bed, slowly take off all your clothes, and eat your pussy. That’s okay, right?

25. You’re the only girl that I’m ever going to need.

26. I keep thinking about when I ate your pussy, it was so sweet.

27. I love the way you suck my dick. You have the perfect mouth.

28. The minute I smell you, my dick gets hard.

29. I feel like a teenager because I can cum again and again when I’m with you. [Read: How to turn a girl on and excite her mind when you’re around]

30. I love seeing you orgasm.

31. So, it’s either whipped cream or chocolate sauce. You pick.

32. You have the most beautiful ass I’ve ever seen.

33. All day long, I’m thinking about you. You make me so horny it’s insane.

34. I’m not going to stop until you orgasm.

35. I hope you don’t need to go to bed early because I’m planning on keeping you up all night long.

36. My favorite thing in the world is eating you out.

37. You better not have any clothes on right now. I want you touching yourself while you’re reading these sexy texts.

38. I want to fuck you in every room in my house, oh, and in your house.

39. Tell me what’s your favorite position when we’re having sex? [Read: Different sex positions to spice it up and add a bang in bed]

40. I love the sound of your moans when I’m eating you out. They make me so hard.

41. You make me so horny, I feel like a wild animal right now.

42. My fingers miss just how wet your pussy makes them when I finger you.

43. I want to run my fingers over your body instead of sitting here texting you.

44. I want you to sit on my table after dinner so I can eat you for dessert.

45. I don’t know what I love more, kissing you, fucking you, or eating you out. [Read: The different types of fetishes – Dirty little secrets]

46. Every time I see you, I want to kiss you every second, on every part of your body.

47. Leave your panties behind at my place when you come over tonight.

48. I wish I could undress you right now, and touch you all over.

49. I had the wildest dream last night, and I can’t wait to repeat that in real life with you.

50. I’m so horny, all I’ve been thinking all day is about how sexy you look naked.

51. I’ve always dreamed of touching you somewhere public, like in the back of a cab or at a restaurant, making you so wet that you can’t stand not being alone anymore.

52. In my fantasy, I have you sit on my face where I can feel you buck your hips against me while I give you orgasm after orgasm.

53. I’ve always fantasized about licking your clit for hours before finishing hard inside you.

54. Thinking about you is getting me so hard.

55. Your body is so sexy. I can’t wait to get my hands on it later.

56. Tonight, I plan on licking your clit for hours, making you moan, and having you beg me to let you come. [Read: 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet]

If you were wondering what you needed to say to turn her on, these are text messages that will make her wet. Try some of them out the next time you talk to her.

When to call it quits with sexy texts

Hey, you’re a smart guy, right? That means you’ll know when to give up the sexy texting for the night. But, if you’re still confused, here are a couple of tips:

1. She’s upset

If your girlfriend seems upset or is dealing with a stressful family, school, or work issue, now probably isn’t the time to try to get her panties wet. [Read: The best, dirty, sexy texting games to get naughty with one text!]

Instead of thinking you’re a sexual master, she’ll probably think you’re an insensitive jerk.

2. She’s not receptive

If you keep throwing out cute, sexy texts and she isn’t responding or is only giving you uncomfortable, one-word answers, then it’s probably time to quit it.

3. She’s mad at you

With some girls, fighting is its own aphrodisiac. Sometimes when they fight, all they want is for you to unzip your pants and show them your goods. [Read: Are relationship fights normal? 15 signs you’re fighting too often]

But other times, like when you’re having a serious argument, she’s going to want to rip your balls off if you’re over there initiating sex while she’s pouring out her frustrated heart to you.

4. She keeps changing the subject

Take this as a polite decline, at least for the night. If your girl keeps changing the subject or making jokes about your advances, then chances are she’s not into it.

Do you know what’s super sexy to a woman? Respect. Be a sexy guy and know when to give it a rest for the night. [Read: 22 ways to make a girl think about you with texts and how you behave]

And hey, just because she’s not into it now doesn’t mean she won’t be into it later. As the old adage goes, “Try, try again!”

Where do most guys go wrong with sexy text messages?

You don’t need to send her these crazy or overly witty text messages. Nor do you need to send long paragraphs of text. Sometimes, trying to be too witty or even writing long texts can kill the mood even before you get the setting right.

Sometimes, the simpler they are, the better they are. When a text is simple and straightforward, it gives a girl all the opportunity in the world to imagine it and fantasize about it. 

And it’s also a great way to get the conversation going back and forth with quick simple texts.

Start with any of these quick and simple sexy texts that will make her wet, and just play along with her answers. That’s the safest, easiest, and most arousing way to turn any girl on over texts.

[Read: 41 rules to be a gentleman every girl would secretly dream of dating]

And all this time you thought making a girl wet using nothing but texts is hard! Honestly, all you have to do is use these sexy text messages that will make her wet, and you’ll see that it’s not as intimidating as you think it is! All you need is a little practice.